In the almost 4 months Axel has been home, we have not had one single toileting issue during the day. We did have to teach him how to go standing up, and deal with some stubbornness, but never had an accidents.
I was gone for part of the evening, so Dean did dinner with the kids, etc. When I got home Axel was already in his pajamas. He usually likes to hang out with us and watch TV in the evening, but tonight Dean said he sat for only a few minutes after dinner then headed to his bedroom to play.
VERY unusual for him to do this at night.
Imagine our surprise tonight when Dean went to tuck Axel into bed and found his bed soaking wet. Freshly soaking wet. Just the comforter, nothing else. As soon Axel realized we knew this, the guilty face and tears showed up. I pulled his clothes he'd taken off out of the hamper, and they were dry.
Axel went to bed without a blanket.
(although he never sleeps with one on, later after he's asleep I'll put one over him.)
I think putting him into school just upped the ante around here in all kinds of ways. This is going to be our next battle of the wills, I think.