Based on things happening with other people in the adoption community who have spoken up recently, (false reports of tax evasion to the IRS, false reports made to child protective services, false reports to immigration.) I feel the need to say this: I WILL NOT PLAY THAT GAME!
Every day of the week there are people in our house (PCA's, behavior specialists, county social workers) who know exactly what kind of care our children get, not to mention our children's teachers who see them every day, doctors who see them on a regular basis, etc. If there were something horrible happening in our house, it would have been reported by one of these many mandated reporters a long time ago.
If there are threats made against my family, including false accusations to the IRS, false reports to child protective services, false claims that affect the traffic to my paid blog or anything else we will know based on the timing of said reports exactly from where they come. I WILL NOT PLAY THAT GAME.